Ladies Please Help! what does this all mean ?
I love this woman very much.we went together for 2 years ago then broke up amicably…she lives in another state now but we still call eachother and e-mail too .went to california 3 weeks ago to be with her for 2 weeks .we had sex .but I felt strange , its like she wants that but not me…she says she loves me very much ….but I don’t get the ambivilance..why does she do this ut still say she loves me ..Her friends in San clemente hate me…..and she won’t tell me why we can’t be together as a couple……..what does this mean? i didn’t date anyone else when we were apart..I was still in love and couldn’t use another woman by getting her hopes up….so confused….She knows I love her but……..she says loving me and the sex thing is ok…but no real committment !
Thanks for all of your thoughtful answers….This relationship is one sided.he says she loves me but doesn’t want me…I am better than this and I do deserve somone who can really love me ..
THANKS LADIES…….
7 Responses
Heather31 May 2010
G-gnomegrl31 May 2010
heh heh, move on. She’s using you as her little sex toy. Excuze the bluntness. You need somebody who gives you as much as you give them.
tami31 May 2010
she’s doesn’t want to be committed. it’s probably not that she likes somebody else or anything like THAT… but, she doesn’t want to have a boyfriend.
you should attempt to cut everything off with this woman. don’t have sex with her or talk to her at all. just do other things until you can forget about her. it’s not good for you.
sunflower205200231 May 2010
take it slow honey,I know how hard that is.
Yet it is sometimes the best.
Take care *HUGS*
nativepride7664231 May 2010
It means she is screwed up in the head!!! I mean there are alot of girls out there who would give ANYTHING for a man who is totally commited like U. stupid girl need to wake up and stop taking things for granted and if I were You I would find someone to love you back and who you can have a future with!! And then when She tryes to come crawling back kick her away like she has been doing to you… Good luck
iburntcookie31 May 2010
gee.. thats a hard one! are u sure shes not cheating on u?? (i dunno just a possibility)… or maybe shes just not ready or something. Have u tried talking to her or her friends?
cribo31 May 2010
Get a grip she is using for sex purposes have you ever realised that when you broke up she might have goten into new things have you ever thought that maybe the time you are apart she got into new things ask her
If she’s not wanting to commit then she’s no longer serious about the relationship and may be using you for sex. Women react to sex diffrently than men so its probably easier to have sex with you (with whom she has had a meaningful relationship and has once had strong feelings for) than to have a one night stand with someone else. If her friends hate you with out any real cause, it might be because she talks a lot of shit about you, sorry but it seems to be true in alot of cases. If talking to her is giving you nothing to work with you may have to go with your gut feeling.